I always considered myself a very independent person and didnt like the sound of this when it was explained to me. To get me to pull my head out of my $$ to notice what he was doing & I only ignored him. Depending on the stage in which you find yourself, youll need to heal, learn, and surrender. Its not. I didnt want to be with anyone unless I felt something. I believed I was in that phase, I forced myself to accept circumstances, fight my ego, declare forgiveness. He certainly didnt do things with me or things I asked of him in the first or second time we were together. Ive been running from him since we separated in November 2019. It tends to happen in challenging phases and intense waves of focusing on them might come and go. I honestly felt the same way with my second twin flame too, the entire time. Id discuss it with my sisters a lot. Perhaps one of the biggest misconceptions and mistakes I see is how we look at the twin flame surrender stage. Yeah it can make a person feel nuts & want to shut it all off, which I have, yet now I want more, its a conundrum Telling myself its all normal. Youre a twin flame because youre a hardcore lightworker, and youre perfectly equipped for this challenge because youre a champion of unconditional love. I know now why I did it. I excused it. Itsimportant to do not forget that this probably wont occur overnight. Which is fine, weve been there done that & just dating didnt work for either of us! Until I told him to stop. The DM is commonly the twin flame runner who finds an excuse to get away from the chaser. You know youve surrendered yourself fully once youve focused on the things that make you happy. Youll release negative beliefs that prevented you from even trying before and become the most authentic version of yourself. Each twin flame will process things at their own pace. I had the choice to choose over him. The more you understand about the journey, the easier that becomes. Simply give yourself time and credit. A reality I relived over & over. Thissometimes leads to doubt on your journey. It was so good at first. Twin flames share a bond that will never severe on the higher dimension. The bliss of endless unconditional love from your twin flame and the collective will give you wings and be the sky through which youll fly. Youve sacrificed a lot for your twin flame and nows the best time to put yourself first. I can help pinpoint if you've met your twin flame already, if you're in a relationship with a false twin flame or what you need to do to meet them if you haven't already. If youre anything like me, you might find the idea of surrendering yourself to someone else (even your twin) a bit against the grain. Twin flames are here on earth to break open old patterns around love and to teach the value of unconditional love by example. Hes expressed that through my mind. It may take you months (even years) to realize what youve done is wrong, and once you do, everything changes for the better. The realization that this is the next phase of the twin flame journey is exciting. If you want more clarity on this, Id suggest speaking to a gifted advisor at Psychic Source. Maybe you can too. But he began playing the same games the second time we were together. It felt GREAT, finally I could be okay with him living his life & me living mine. On the higher levels you both know exactly why this is happening but how that manifests on the 3D is going to vary wildly. It really helps make sense of my journey and what I need to do next - Alexandra. You cant date someone the way he was dating me & have it work. I didnt feel that should be on one of my posts that I keep very uplifting so I can assist others on their journeys. Hed just showed jealousy. Still does. This gives you great comfort on your journey and gives you hope when you feel like giving up. More in shape. Did he not know me, ever? Although I LOVE ALL OF HUMANITY, I also see & feel the pain in it all, yet the absolute perfection as well. If you are in the twin flame chaser, surrender comes to you when you feel your twin flame runner slow their speed. No Im not, am I just supposed to believe well magically magnetize each other? Organizing your house is a step in path of completely improving your life. I know he worries about my health. Its natural and simply an aspect of this path which you need to process and then let go of. For one thing, the runner needs to surrender to the fact that all that shadow work and karma clearing must be done. Its not like I was driving to where he lived watching his every move. Both twin flames need to be in a state of surrender for the Universe to do its work. At first every step was painful. Dont compare yourself (or your twin) to what you read in other twin flame stories. It's a spiritual fight or flight response. The loud and sudden sound can be seen as a wake-up call or a signal to pay attention to something important happening within oneself. Should You Have No Contact With Your Twin Flame Throughout Separation? Anything you tell me will be in the strictest confidence. This is simply potential though, if you have done all the mandatory healing work on your self and have learned the method to detach from them. Insinuated that I was a cheater.. Told me hed NEVER date me again, said it repeatedly. Is this EVER going to level out? Just make sure you agree to our. The timeline and process are going to be a little different for everyone but the surrender process is a key part of the road to a physical union for everyone and while the twin flame experience is unique were all human and there are some tried and tested ways to focus on our soul journey. Stating I appeared to be dressing too sexy on my instagram. During the height of the runner-chaser stage, you may end up developing a lot of self-doubts. Thats a sense of bliss and freedom without equal. Then suddenly I meet this guy out of the blue whos extremely persistent, very kind & he was bringing things out in me I hadnt allowed myself to feel for years. There was one thing about him once we met online that pushed me to meet him physically, like we have been meant to fulfill, regardless of how much I informed myself in any other case. That includes hypothyroidism. So I ran further from him. This experience is a lesson that involves the ability to let go of control and expectations so that the universe will follow its natural flow. I missed just talking to him when we werent talking. When you disconnect from your twin flame and surrender to the journeyon some level your twin is going to know this. It can also represent the shedding old habits and beliefs to embrace new beginnings. Have you reached the end of your rope with your twin flame? You can't rush or force early union without creating some serious 3D challenges. I need to understand things he was going through, not just in my mind, but in person. The one thing he could never read was my heart, because I blocked it off from him. I was done with games. You enable the awakening course of takes you on the trail to completion. I told him Id been waiting for someone for 29 years point, I knowit bothered him. Remember: when you put your own values first, you get to be a whole and complete person. The Psychic Robot then tells you exactly what to do. Yes it feels great to finally be chased but as I said before, he needs to tone it down A LOT or hes going to lose me. You realize that you need to improve yourself, for change should come deep within yourself. I felt like I was on the otherside with the highest version of my Twin Flame assisting me with all the love, patience & understanding Id always longed to have in every relationship I ever got into, but never did. I mean, its easy to get disheartened whenever your twin flame runner denies their feelings and pushes you away. It can seem completely counter-intuitive but weirdly the best way to further your journey is to focus on any other area of your life. I dont think Ive spoken to a single twin flame who successfully committed to the surrender stage and didnt reach union in this lifetime. It is the chaser who needs to surrender first, you are not admitting defeat, nor are you going to lose your twin flame. I also have a Master's degree in Public Management. For us, it is emotional when one of us is emotionally pulled away from the other if we felt chased. Though you may experience frustration, pain, fatigue or emotional overwhelm as youre processing karma and shadows as part of your twin flame growth process, you and your twin will work your way through those stages. Yet Im now telling myself its not real. We had an instant connection that I hadnt You ask a question and then share additional information about your situation. I was in a very unhealthy place before I knew my twin flame. Protect your self from adverse energies BUT whereas additionally sending your shiny warm light and love out to this world that so desperately wants it. Or do I look at it all as leading me to him? By this time, you understand thatthe surrender stage is not as easy as it looks. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); Copyright 2022 Spiritualunite.com All rights reserved. Period. fully trust the divine timing + unfolding of the twin flame connection. I talk alot about the pain of this stage and ways to cope but remember that it does serve a purpose. They can't complete each other's journeys. - Dan, Thank you very for the light you have given me. I guess he knows now there is. Or maybe Im crazy for accepting all of this craziness so easily. They find it easier to distance themselves rather than work on themselves. It is often referred to as "the dance of the twins", because during the balancing process, a push and pull dynamic is caused between the parts of the whole. I even told him I felt ready to give up my TF for him. It is best if you accept the truth about the twin flame bond; that is, you are always connected. No matter what occurred during the surrender, youre still the devoted twin flame associate identical to youve always used to be. The soul bond is always going to exert pressure on each twin flame to achieve merging frequency, to be in contact, to be in your twin flames presence at the very least in spiritual terms if not physically as well. Im not quite as internet savvy as Id like to be. Its got me feeling crazy. You know you have reached a point of no return, and you understand there is no going backward into playing out old emotions and behaviors. We cant attempt to rush through the surrender stage or force it to happen toget it over with. Nomadrs is a space to explore your perspectives related to the more esoteric side of spirituality. She brings all these tools together and combines them with her natural psychic medium, clairvoyant and clairaudient gifts. I dream about him all the time when I didnt dream about my first TF hardly at all until recently. It was completely different, and the gifted spiritual advisor there really helped me understand the pattern of the twin flame chaser surrender. If theres magic in this journey, then bring us together. Your soul and higher self as well as your twin will guide you as to how to surrender at every step along the way, but it wont be an easy process so dont expect it to simply happen overnight. You become pregnant with love, this makes you want to cook, organize your home, and groom yourself. I actually began thinking about my first TF & I being physically together in the last year & a half & realized I dont know this person at all anymore from us being teenage kids. I mentioned them earlier. Her extensive list of metaphysical tools is the result of practicing reading and healing many souls for over 30 years. I know he felt me thinking about him, which I tried not to do at all. Im the type that believes in vows. Ive experienced so much recently itd blow anyones mind. He is someone Ill always love, but I no longer see him as a person Id get into a relationship with. Surrender to the process at this stage is so delicious and comfortable that you can not help but fall into it like a freshly made bed. So instead of trying to figure out the significance and impact of surrendering, speak to an advisor wholl give you the necessary guidance you need. Thats the truth. On the higher levels you both knowexactly why this is happening but how that manifests on the 3D is going to vary wildly. I tried to get him to, he started to in the lengthy run, however by then it was too late, I didnt believe him anymore. And we are sure our neighbors prefer us making love and not war.